Hello this is the real me

Hello

I hope you follow my blog, because I am going to get naked (not literally) and expose myself (not literally, but got your attention), I am going to expose my soul, my spirit and who I really am to you all over the coming weeks.  I will share my journey with you, some of it damn right funny and other damn right scary.

The purpose of this expose for a shortage of a word:

1. So I can be real and lose my mask for the first time in 44 years - FREEDOM
2. You get the opportunity to know me, the real me, and maybe you will want to stay
3. You wont take people at face value anymore, make assumptions based on what you see or don't see.
4. It might help you identify with some areas of your life that need healing, hell maybe even exposing. (not literally, unless of course you want to )

WHAT I THINK YOU KNOW ME TO BE IN A NUTSHELL

I am a total extrovert. I am the woman who loves to laugh, 80 - 90 % of the time is driving and motivating others, full of mischief and often crosses the "appropriate barrier" when it comes to conversations of a sexual nature.  I always support these statements with a loud laugh and say I was not born on the 5th of November for nothing.

Those of you that know me from my 20's and early 30's will remember me for my ability to dance till dawn with a bottle of Sambuca in hand, being the life of the party and showing no mercy to conformity.

I am NEVER EVER and I mean NEVER EVER going to get married again - its not called an institution for nothing. In fact relationships are for the total birds and I boycott them.  When I hear of people having relationship issues I always retort with a "That is exactly why I am single".

I always seem to be learning something, and have been told by many of you I have "big brains", clever, knowledgeable.

I am crazy mad for my  3 furry children who share my living space with me and I have an adoptive furry daughter which comes for play dates.

I have more than proven my prowess in the World of Careers.  Going in, dominating, changing and developing it.  Getting many an opportunity within my career that many dream of but have yet to experience.

I am fearless, I am always ready to dive into a challenge, take risks and venture into the unknown.

NOW TO BLOW YOU ALL AWAY:

I am a total INTROVERT.  I use massive amounts of energy and force to be who I am in public situations, at work and amongst friends.  I have a total passion for seeing people succeed in life and that's what drives me to be the energy for you and for others who  may need on a bad day.  None of you have asked for me to do this. I want to do it.

When I crash (like I did last Thursday), I have to withdraw from the world and heal and re-energise, myself because I am inclined to run my battery flat at my own peril.  Not from stress or overwork, but always wearing the mask that makes all of you think everything is okay and we can all do this.

I don't like parties, I don't like coffee dates, I don't like going to shopping malls or eating out, I don't like visiting or sleeping over. Some of you may already have picked up on that because I never do any of those things with you and many have had last minute cancellations:  This has become more so over the last 5 years.

PLEASE this has nothing to do with you or you being bad company.  Those of you that I allow to skirt around the boundaries of my life are only there because I love you and care for you.  I just don't want to do coffee, lunch or social stuff. I don't like it.

 I LOVE been alone at home in my safe place with my animals and garden, just being me.  I am never bored with my own company and I have the most amazing conversations with plants, animals, God and my Angels.

Yup, I believe in God, Jesus, Angels, power of Crystals. I don't put God in a Box, I don't take the Bible Literally, I do believe we don't give God enough Credit and Power - after all if we believe in Genesis, then why don't we believe in Angels, Helpers, and Guides?  How sad that we believe God would just leave us to our free will because of something Adam and Eve did - God would never ever abandon us.

I believe I am more than slightly an Empath and I can sense certain situations and peoples energy without anybody saying a word.  I think this helped me alot in my Career because I could use it for my benefit. WRONG WRONG WRONG.   Which could explain why I withdraw so much from public and social events.  It just drains my energy and I cant shake it.

I am now learning Astrology, not your Horoscopes stuff, the real deep Planets, Ascending Starts, etc stuff. It is incredibly powerful.

I suffer from bouts of Major Depression and at times I think about committing Suicide and leaving this World.  In my life I have tried or considered taking my life 3 times.  More about that later.

I dislike Corporate and the games that are played with peoples lives for the sake of getting accolades from Senior Management, for the sake of Profit.  Its falseness, self-serving and wrong.

And as we go on, if you stick around, to either berate or accept who I am I will reveal more of how I came to this space in my life.   I hope you do stick around and if you don't, then thank you for the season you shared in my life.  It has all played a part in my journey.